A fascinating study by the University of Lincoln in the UK says there are five different kinds of relationships between cats and their owners - friendship, co-dependence, remote association, casual and open.
This cat has often come to depend on a very
emotionally invested owner (the cat is very important to the owner, possibly
seen as family or as a great friend).
The owner typically plays regularly with the cat,
and is seen as a part of the same social group (the cat behaves in a friendly
way towards the owner, even regularly licking the owner’s hands and face) and
as a secure base (the cat will seek the owner when worried).
The cat doesn’t relate well with others (is even
likely to hide when, for example, someone comes to the house.
This cat has learned that good things come when
the owner is near (for example: the owner stays with the cat whilst the cat is
eating) and so, makes a considerable effort to maintain physical proximity to
the owner (these cats can even be considered to be clingy) and separation can
be problematic (the cat may not eat if the owner is away). This might suggest
the cat has some problems with controlling its frustrations.
This relationship is common among cats living in
a one-person household with no access outdoors.
These cats have always preferred life outdoors to
life in their busy households.
They will often visit several homes in their
territory (possibly having more than one home!) and might be gone for days at
Even though these cats behave in a friendly way
towards the owner they will not try to stay close to their carer (in fact, the
chance are they will even make an effort to put some distance between them and
The owner is emotionally invested in the cat
(worries about the cat, sees him/her as a good friend or a part of the family)
and will often find time to play with the cat.
The cat is very warm and friendly towards the
owner (will often sit on the owner’s lap)/
The owner is seen not only as part of the same
social group (the cat will regularly lick the owner’s hands and face) but also
as a secure base (someone to seek out for comfort when the cat is worried).
The cat relates well to others (will greet or
inspect visitors coming to the house and possibly even visit some neighbours).
Alongside the friendly and warm relationship, cat
and owner can happily function independently.
This cat likes to be near the owner but doesn’t
feel a need to maintain physical proximity to the owner (doesn’t always follow
the owner around the house and may even take him/herself away to a preferred
Separation is not likely to be problematic.
This relationship seems to occur more often in
busy households with more than one cat, and the cats often have some outside
The cats in this type of bond reflect a
prototypical view of the cat as a solitary, independent animal, who should have
access to the outside.
The cats relate well to other people (they are
likely to greet visitors or visit neighbours) and have some affiliation with
the owner, but have little need for owner proximity and may be seen as aloof.
They possibly will not sit on the owner’s lap or
lick the owner’s hands or face.
Cats in this type of relationship are cared for,
but not typically considered to be a close friend or part of the family.
They may not be very close emotionally, even
though the cat’s behaviour towards the owner may be quite friendly.
These cats prefer to maintain distance from
people (owners and others), possibly because they lack confidence.
They will not lick the owner’s hands and face,
nor will they seek the owner even when worried.
If you want to do the quiz yourself, have a look here: www.lincoln.ac.uk/home/cat-quiz/
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